This weekend, I'm cherishing quality time with my parents and younger sisters. Okay, I basically live in my own personal support system as my parents and my sisters are right there. Having them around, it's like having a built-in weekend fun committee! Seriously, if I'm ever staring at a blank calendar on a Saturday, BAM! They're already plotting something hilarious or delicious or both.
This is one of our many weekend projects. Missing one sister.
And being the eldest sister? Yeah, I'm basically the second mom. Or, as my sisters put it, 'Mom 2.0'. Honestly, when they went, 'You're just like Mom!' My response is always, 'Well yeah, I am!' It's the ultimate compliment. Plus, they've got this whole 'If Mom's not around, we'll just find you!' thing going on. Which, I mean, is a little dramatic, but also kinda sweet? Like, I'm the family's emotional backup hard drive. I dig it.
But, realistically, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Someone's gotta be the responsible one, right? That's where I come in, the 'Education Fairy Godmother'. Okay, maybe not that dramatic, but I'm definitely the one who's always like, 'Homework? Done! Uni applications? Do it, now! New iPhone? Excuse you!' I'm always a bit firm with them, but they know I mean well. They respect that, so they go along with it.
My little sister showed up when I was 18. Then I became my mom's apprentice. Instead of letting her waste her semester break sleeping, I asked her to help me with work. You're welcome. 😎
I always tell them, pursue your dreams, find what makes you happy. But, let's not forget the grand quest, finishing those studies and building a fulfilling career. That's the 'Achievement Unlocked: Secure Future and Happy Parents' moment. And honestly, watching them thrive in their careers? That's my preferred form of long-term entertainment. Give me a well-adjusted life as an adult. That's the real drama I want to watch.
I've reached the point where, the moment I begin my 'helpful reminders', well, the ones that always start with 'You know, if you just...' – they immediately pre-empt me with a synchronized 'yeah, yeah, we know.' It's become their standard response, and they'll process it on their own timeline. And deep down, I know they will. They always do. It's just... their pace is more of a leisurely stroll than a sprint, and I've had to make peace with that. 😊
Basically, I'm just lucky. And I'm pretty sure my sisters are, too. We've got each other's backs, whether it's for a spontaneous road trip or a late-night snacking session. And honestly, knowing they'll all ace it and make our parents proud? That's the best reward ever.
So, here's to family, to support systems, and to always having someone to finish your sentences (and your snacks)! 😑
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